Romance scams: signals worth taking seriously
International dating creates real opportunities and also gives scammers distance, urgency and financial stories to exploit. Treat requests for money as a major warning sign.
Money changes the situation
Requests for emergency help, crypto, investments, tickets, customs fees or account access should trigger caution — especially before you have met.
Pressure to leave the platform can remove safeguards
Moving to another messenger is normal eventually, but urgency to do it immediately can be a signal worth examining.
Verification is evidence, not immunity
A verified photo or phone number reduces some uncertainty. It does not prove every story, intention or financial claim.
Checklist
- Never send verification codes.
- Do not invest through links sent by a new match.
- Keep early conversation on-platform when possible.
- Meet in public and tell someone your plan.